You Can't Pour From An Empty Cup

You Can't Pour From An Empty Cup

The world is different now. In just a few short weeks, things have changed drastically. One of those changes is that millions of people have all the extra time in the world on their hands. That has led to several posts, memes, and articles talking about how much can be done while we are “all” at home “doing nothing”. One meme talks about Shakespeare writing King Lear while quarantined during the plague. And apparently Sir Isaac Newton invented both calculus & gravity (if you take what the internet says as fact – this is highly debated as to when exactly these concepts were truly “invented”) during quarantine, as well.

But times are different now than during the plague. For one thing, we are being constantly inundated by facts and figures, comparing COVID-19 to everything from the Spanish flu pandemic, to the plague, to, yes, just another hoax. We are constantly being notified of another press conference, wondering what changes, what new revelations about the virus this one will bring, wondering what the newest death tolls will be. This alone is enough to give a “normal” person a panic attack.

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When the World is an Uncertain Place

When the World is an Uncertain Place

Two weeks ago I was assured that my son’s spring break camp would go on like normal, because the CDC had said gatherings up to 50 people were ok, and because the school had been disinfected the weekend before. “Great!” I thought. “At least I have a week to figure out how the heck this is going to work with two full time working parents, one who literally cannot work from home, and the other whose boss has strong feelings against working from home, ESPECIALLY with a child home (and rightfully so).

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Ultimate Mom Binder Review

Ultimate Mom Binder Review

Like most moms I know, when it comes to keeping a clean and tidy house, it’s kind of like a train wreck. I know a few moms that have super tidy spotless homes, but that is the exception, not the majority. I hope, for your sake and your family’s, that you are in that minority group that seems to have all your stuff together. But if that’s not you, I've got you!

A few weeks ago a friend posted a live video launching a free video course to help moms get their house and life under control. I know this girl, and I can say that she is one of my favorite people to follow because she is actively investing in herself and her family’s future through personal development. She recently launched a homeschooling blog, and it’s already doing great. Honestly, she’s someone I aspire to be like.

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Time Doesn't Heal All Wounds

Time Doesn't Heal All Wounds
I recently read a note that my mom wrote to my stepmom shortly after she had been diagnosed with brain cancer. My stepmom was “just” a friend of the family at the time. It only makes sense that my dad turned to her for comfort after my mom was gone, since she knew what an amazing person my mom was. I wonder what it was like for her, knowing what we had lost. She’s always seemed so confident, but I wonder if it was hard for her to find her place in our world. And she lost a friend that day too. I never seem to remember that.
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How to Set Healthy Boundaries

How to Set Healthy Boundaries
Maybe you have the perfect family. Maybe every gathering is wonderful, joyful, and without any drama whatsoever. Maybe your family’s interactions are a beautiful harmonious show of love and affection. Or maybe that’s not the case at all. 

I’d like to think that most families fall somewhere in the middle, including my own. You love each other very much, and your family always wants the best for you. Their hearts are in the right place, for sure. But sometimes the way they show their feelings can leave you hurt and ashamed. With the culture of “never enough” that we seem to live in today, it’s hard not to feel ashamed at times, especially when someone is telling you that the way you are living your life is wrong.
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